Friends Dating Places

Cooking someone dinner for the first time may have a little more science behind it than you think! Certain foods can act as an aphrodisiac, increasing the libido and stimulating the areas of the brain that make you crave sex.Using these foods to cook with won’t only impress the friend you’ve been dating, but it’ll put them in the mood faster than any foreplay will.

Asparagus is the biggest mood-booster. Back in the day, kings and queens were made to eat full meals of asparagus before their wedding because it was said to make you feel more in love. Well, they didn’t know the technology behind it, but they were on the right track! Asparagus has all the vitamins and nutrients that boost histamine production, which gives both parties a better orgasm.

Almonds and nuts in general are another one. Adding them to recipes of things like chicken and salads will create an aroma for women that increases passion.

After you’ve finished your dating searchand have brought someone home, there’s another ‘A’ you should keep in mind when you cook: The Avocado. Not only will the color stimulate your sexual sensors, but it works so well to increase libido that people have been doing it since the stone ages. Dating back thousands of years ago, the Aztecs’ name for Avocado was ‘Ahuacuatl’, which means testicle tree. The shape of the Avocados reminded the Aztecs of hanging balls, and when they ate them, they had a little more tingle below the belt than usual.

Now when you think of eating on a date, you probably don’t think about garlic, but you should! When doctors started suggesting people use garlic to help keep the heart healthy, it was because it increases blood flow in men. Increased blood flow makes for a stronger heart beat, and also a more solid erection.

Lastly we have to things that don’t quite mix, but have something very important in common: They’re the two biggest sexual stimulators you can find in food. Honey and oysters. They’re both chalk full of the horny goods, and won’t leave you stinking when you sweat like garlic will. Cooking with either of these two ingredients are a guarantee to get both of your libidos moving.

So when you’re ready to bring your date home for dinner, make sure you cook to excite with these stimulators!

It’s not a long weekend here in Hollywood, but way up north, Canada is getting ready to end work and start their first long weekend of the summer. Long weekends are my favorite excuses to put my pick up lines to good use for the first time of the season. I’m going to put aside my usual bias towards free dating sites and offer some words of wisdom to pick up in the real world. I have a lot of theories on why it’s easy to get down when you have an extra day added to your Saturday and Sunday, so here’s a few to keep in mind.

People are off work for three days! Use their relaxation to your advantage. Who doesn’t like having an extra day off of work? It’s the best feeling in the world! People are relaxed and stress free, probably for the first time all week, so use this to your advantage and play the part of fun, charming potential dating partner who helps them shake out whatever leftover knots they have in their shoulders from the work week.

The fresh air people get from being outside will put them in a better mood. No one wants to hit on the grumpy kid in the corner, which works because on long weekends, those people seem to disappear! Long weekends attract people outside, which gives their lungs and minds extra fresh air. Having that change of atmosphere is proven to lift peoples moods, making them easier and more accessible to hit on!

Liquid courage gets passed around. Cheers to courage! People embrace their freedom on long weekends and take advantage of the fact that they don’t have responsibilities for three days. If they’re hitting the cottage or simply getting some sun at their local beach, people like to crack a few cold ones open and enjoy them under the sun. This makes people less uptight than usual, which creates for a fun flirting experience.

There’s more fish in the sea to choose from. Ever notice you pick up less in the winter because there’s simply no one around? Well, the long weekends draw out the crowds! Even people who work jobs that don’t get long weekends off seem to come out for the celebrations. A few fireworks, a few campfires, and if you’re lucky, a few sparks flying between you and a special someone you met on the pier. Hooking up during long weekends is easier than any other time because people are actually out being social, which is a nice change.

People treat them like mini-spring breaks. There’s nothing quite like meeting that one group of friends that treats every weekend like it’s spring break. Stocks up on booze so they don’t run out, swears cowboy hats with bathing suits just because, and always has a beer opened by 9AM. Those are the kinds of people who make long weekends fun! When everyone is having a good time, it’s simply easier to connect with people. You don’t have to try as hard to make good conversation, because if you’re both in a good mood, the conversation will be great no matter what you talk about!

If you find yourself in Canada this weekend, use the long weekend to go out and have a good time. Connect with people and make memories that you can talk about later to hopefully build a relationship on. The more you enjoy yourself, the more you’ll enjoy other people, so take advantage of your three days off and start work towards something meaningful.

Bringing up the fact that people date outside their age range is moot point, people have been doing it for centuries. This blog isn’t about the age difference themselves, it’s about how to deal with dating someone that has many years junior on you. How do you connect? What do you talk about that doesn’t make one of you feel too old, and one of you feel too young? Well, thankfully I’ve been in this position before with someone I found on the free dating sites I use.

Like in any relationship, there’s things you should and shouldn’t do. Obviously obsessing over the age difference is just going to make you see it more. Relax! You’re among good company. Demi Moore, Harrison Ford, Tom Cruise, Mick Jagger, Van Gogh and Mozart are just some of the people who have been in relationships with at least a 10 year age gap. So many great people wouldn’t do it if there wasn’t something to gain!

But for the basics, here’s a few things you can do to make yourself more in tune with your younger counterpart.

Familiarize yourself with new technology. Nothing says you’re too old for me than someone handing you their cellphone to program your number, and you don’t even know how to turn the screen on. If you’re going to go out with someone younger than you, don’t give them any reasons to think about age. Technology is a big part of 20somethings lives now, and you need to be in tune with that. Every cell phone you can imagine is on display at your local Rogers, AT&T or Apple store, so walk in and test a few out. That way when the time comes, she’ll be thinking about how she’s happy to get your number, and not about how confusing it is that you don’t know how to work a Backberry.

Brush up on your slang! Don’t start dropping words like Purple Drank just so she knows that you listen to Lil Wayne, but don’t say things like ‘groovy’ or ‘bitchin’ either. Nothing can date a person quite like the language they choose to use, so watch some current TV popular with a younger audience and make not of what they do and don’t say.

Familiarize yourself with the Billboard Hot 100. The most common conversation topics people fall back on is music. It’s something everyone has an opinion on, and no matter when it is, it’s always relevant. You don’t want someone asking what you thought of the new Adele album when you haven’t even heard of it. Take a look at popular new artists and listen to a few of their songs so you have something in common to talk about.

Relationships with large age gaps seem to work because each party brings something very different to the table, but you still have to both be able to meet in the middle. They’re probably not going to be talking about Woodstock, so you shouldn’t either. Stay away from stories and references that are going to date you, and enjoy them for their company, not their age.